The resolution, according to the Thesaurus Alphabetical English language, interpreted as a statement, the verdict, a determination. So, when it comes to New Year's resolution, meant for anyone, determination or desires to do something. o this is aimed at anyone, including for parents to become better parents again. As we know, parenting is a lifelong job that must be done and cannot apply for a stop work. If there are obstacles or difficulties, you can do is to improve the process and how you deal with your baby and your status as a parent. Following the tips of a resolution for new parents:
1. Be Patient
To become a patient man is not an easy matter. Some people are blessed with the patience which is very high, but some, not so good. However, there is never too late to learn to be patient. Apparently, almost all parents have experienced the anxious face of his son. How to remove the anger too diverse, there is shouting, there was a slamming of goods, and others. However, it sure is not to hit children, because it could leave the pain in the hearts of children in a long time. All you can do is make a resolution to be patient and better. How, for example by counting to 10 or more, take a "timeout", or imagine yourself in a comfortable and safe place when angry meets the head.
2. Don’t too intervene
Children are a different person. He has his own world. When it reaches a certain age, especially adolescents or pre-teens, he would try to master their world without the help of anyone, including parents. No wonder, he would be angry if you want to know or ask too many questions to life. Try to refrain not interfere too deeply if it is not necessary. Make a resolution themselves to talk to him about things he had to tell and the things he can save himself.
Children are a different person. He has his own world. When it reaches a certain age, especially adolescents or pre-teens, he would try to master their world without the help of anyone, including parents. No wonder, he would be angry if you want to know or ask too many questions to life. Try to refrain not interfere too deeply if it is not necessary. Make a resolution themselves to talk to him about things he had to tell and the things he can save himself.
3. Time for “me”
Every person has the right to spoil their self with the things they likes, or sometimes called "me time". Do not think of time working in the office, while away from children is one of the time. You need a moment of self-indulgent as balancing your brain and mental health. Try to make a resolution to be able to share their time better in order to "enjoy the time" as your own. Quite some time has been to help you recharge the power to back the move.
Every person has the right to spoil their self with the things they likes, or sometimes called "me time". Do not think of time working in the office, while away from children is one of the time. You need a moment of self-indulgent as balancing your brain and mental health. Try to make a resolution to be able to share their time better in order to "enjoy the time" as your own. Quite some time has been to help you recharge the power to back the move.
4. Believe in yourself
Sometimes as a parent, you are confused and lean with your wife/husband, but she/he was also confused about what to do or say to the child. No parent is perfect, because nobody is perfect. But people can learn to not repeat mistakes. Try to be gentler to yourself. Believe your own assessment. When the decision was already doing, try not to question or regret your decision, because this will only waste your energy. Keep Learning.
Sometimes as a parent, you are confused and lean with your wife/husband, but she/he was also confused about what to do or say to the child. No parent is perfect, because nobody is perfect. But people can learn to not repeat mistakes. Try to be gentler to yourself. Believe your own assessment. When the decision was already doing, try not to question or regret your decision, because this will only waste your energy. Keep Learning.
5. Networking
It’s very easy to become alienated or isolated when you've become a parent and working. Try to begin to reestablish communication with old friends who have children of your child's age. Try to make resolutions to live a life as a mother who also socialize. There are many things you can get when having many friends.
Stop for a moment to see the world that you have from glasses others. You have children, homes, jobs, a husband/wife who loves you, and a large family to support. But sometimes, with all the busy and tired today, we often forgot the blessings of the Almighty. In fact, out there may be many people who want what you have. It is a challenge to be able to keep silence for a moment and take in all the pleasure that you have now. Try to make the resolution to be like that; surely you will become a more open face anything.
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